Fashion-Forward Looks for the Mother of the Bride and Groom

There is so much thought put into the the look of a wedding, obviously. Even the napkins are scrutinized and subject to an analytical eye. So, after the fuss and muss over the bride's gown, the groom's tuxedo, the bridesmaids, the table clothes, the flowers and the lighting, there remains a very crucial crucifix of important that is overlooked - the mothers!

It's important to consider that your big day is also a very big day for those that bore and raised you. Especially the ladies! Traditional mother of the bride looks can be outdated, dowdy and unflattering (why do you need alllll of those layers of shiny silk?), but they don't have to be. Below are some tips to picking a look that will make the ladies who love you look radiant and feel confidant. We've even chosen some chic styles that you can suggest!

DON'T GET PIGEONHOLED - A big mistake is looking for mother-of-the-bride looks is limiting yourself to the small, dusty, outdated mother-of-the-bride corner of your bridal store. There is a whole big world out there full of beautiful things. Get out there and explore! Department stores are always great options because of their vast and varied selection. Boutiques can offer a personal touch and might carry a more curated selection of pieces.

DO YOUR RESEARCH - High-end websites have some great resources for searching possible options. Even if you're on a strict budget, it can be helpful to research somewhere like Net-a-Porter or Moda Operandi get to get a general idea of what you're going for. These sites - and Barneys.com, SaksFifthAvenue.com and Nordstrom.com - have lots of search options that can help you to narrow down what might work. If you find something spectacular, print out the picture and bring it with you when you shop. It will help you keep focus and can be a great reference for any sales staff that's helping you.

THROW OUT THE RULE BOOK - If your mom hasn't worn a dress in 40 years, don't force her into one. You want her to feel comfortable and like herself. Sometimes and pants suit or a skirt and blouse can really wow a crowd. The key to looking truly exceptional is feeling great. Tailoring helps a lot too. If you're going with a pants suit, make sure the pants are properly hemmed and the jacket fits like a glove.

If you follow these three easy guidelines, you shouldn't be far off from the perfect find. But, in case you need a little push here are a few of our favorites!

From Left to Right: Emanuel Ungaro Gown - on sale for $1,162.50 at Net-a-Porter, Alfred Sung style D586 in Quarry - $220 on Dessy, Tadashi Shoji Portrait Collar Gown - on sale for $148.80 on Nordstrom.com